Thursday, November 18, 2010

A Postmortem


Bonjour,

So, it's the day after Aid al Kabir, and there are still lots of sheep in Morocco.

For Moroccans, yesterday was a wonderful day with family and feasts, kind of like our Thanksgiving or Christmas. Today festivities continue, as it is Independence Day in Morocco.

As for us, we made it through yesterday without much trauma. We left Rabat in the morning, and while I looked away a few times to avoid seeing very fresh skins, roasting heads (in the medians or by the edge of the road) and bloody knives, we didn't see many dead animals. (And Bob didn't get invited to share in any fresh mutton).

The hardest part was when Rachida came to our house (she's house-sitting for us this weekend) with two young, scared animals -- a sheep and a goat -- in the trunk of a share taxi (old, white mercedes sedan). That made it really real.

Anna pet the shivering sheep, which was laying on top of the goat, before it was lifted out of the car. Tommy pretty much hid. Bob was unmoved.


The two animals came from the same farm and seemed to be friends, huddling together after the cords tying their legs were cut. They had a chance to frolic in our backyard and munch on some plants (fyi, they seemed happy to be free in our yard) before their ends. That made me glad.

It also made me glad when Rachida described the prayer said before the animals are killed, which she said (I think) really calms the animals. (She clearly felt bad for them, though. And we definitely did not stick around for what was coming next).

Instead, we headed south to Casablanca to hang out with some friends...

before stopping in Oualidia for another little vacation from our vacation (sabbatical). More on that soon.

A bientot,

Kim

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Ode to the Sheep

Bonjour,

Tomorrow nearly everyone in Morocco will be celebrating Aid al Kabir. It’s the biggest holiday of the year for devout Muslims, and it involves lots of feasting and traveling, as families gather together.

At the center of the holiday is the sacrifice of millions of sheep. The holiday celebrates the story in the Koran (and in the Bible and in the Torah) about Abraham. To test Abraham’s faith, God directed him to sacrifice his young son, Isaac. After Abraham built the altar and prepared to kill his son, God rewarded Abraham’s faith by giving him a ram to sacrifice instead.

Karim, our guard, says that all Muslims are obligated to buy a sheep (at a price equal to one-month’s salary), kill it and eat it during the feast (and in the days to follow). Other families have less strict interpretations of this rule (some Muslims we know donate money to charity in lieu of buying a sheep, for example). But some families feel great pressure to conform, and some leave town to avoid the holiday and/or their neighbors’ scrutiny.

Aside from the religious significance of tomorrow's events, from a practical perspective, there have been sheep everywhere for the last week or so. You see them on street corners, at the produce stands, in small carts wheeled through the medina, thrown into wagons and the backs of trucks, and in our neighbor’s backyard tool-shed.

Some of the sheep look terrified and unhappy, like when I tried to get a photo at one stand and they all tried to squeeze into the farthest corner.

Some of them seem complacent, even contented, nuzzling their humans much like dogs.

Some sheep vendors sell bags of charcoal next to the pens of sheep.

Outside of the Marjane (Morocco's answer to Target), there is a huge sheep market, but I didn't get too close.

All of this, for me, is the most obvious example of how real the connection is here between raising animals and eating meat. Morocco is not like the U.S., where buying meat means just buying food in a sterile, styrofoam tray that is wrapped in plastic. Here, buying meat means you go to the medina or market, point out the chicken you want, watched it get weighed (and thereby priced), and stand by while that chicken is killed, plucked and chopped up.

As harsh as that feels when you walk through the medina, or by the local chicken stand, as a longtime vegetarian, I think it is a good thing. Here, you can’t avoid the fact that before you can eat meat, an animal must die. And here, at least, the animals have almost certainly lived a free-range life before their unpleasant end.

Rachida, our maid, cook and friend, said yesterday that she worries that Americans, like some French, will think Muslims “savages” (her word) because of the sheep. Since it is just one week before Thanksgiving, when Americans will be buying millions of turkeys wrapped in plastic, I told her that Americans are not in a position to judge.

An animal lover, Rachida told me about the sheep she had last year, which would watch television with her and of which she grew very fond, and how hard it was to kill it for Aid. She still thinks about that sheep. And now she won’t keep her sheep at her house; it stays with her neighbor so she won’t grow attached again. (Tommy also reported tonight that some of his friends were distressed at school today, because they didn't want their cute sheep to die).

I’m not sure how it will go tomorrow. For Anna and me, it will probably be unpleasant. For Tommy, who has been the truest vegetarian and most ardent animal-lover in the family, it could be awful. For Bob, it will be (he hopes) a chance to eat some really fresh mutton.

One final note: Bob (always the philosopher) says that it is better for there to be a holiday with the mass slaughter of sheep (along with some billy goats) because if not for this holiday, the sheep never would have been born. And, he claims, better for them to have lived before dying tomorrow, than to have not lived at all.

Tommy disagrees with Bob and thinks it would better if the sheep had not been born. I’m not convinced by Bob’s argument either. Dit-moi (tell me) -- Are you?

A bientot,

Kim

Monday, November 15, 2010

Trainin' It

Bonjour,

Before leaving Asilah, we had one last chance to capture a few more images from the pretty medina (and just outside of the medina).

Then, we headed back by train again to Rabat because Karla, Gary and Grace had a plane to catch the next morning and more high-pressure, last-minute shopping to do in Rabat...

A word about the rail system in Morocco. The trains in Morocco aren't bad at all, although they are often running 10-15 minutes behind schedule (which is available on the internet at the oncf site). Going by train may take longer, but it's more pleasant than driving. So, if a city is on the train line, that's usually how we choose to get there.

Now, if you were riding on our train, and wanted to squeeze into a seat in our compartment (if we hadn't taken them all), who would you most like as your riding companion(s)?

Karla and Gracie (aka mini-G)?

Anna?

Gary (big G)?

Bob? (be prepared to sit quietly and study Arabic flashcards, though...)

Tommy?


or me (aka Number One Auntie)?

Don't we look like a fun group?

Oddly enough, no one else tried to join us...

A bientot,

Kim

Friday, November 12, 2010

Paradise Lost

Bonjour,

So on our last full day in Asilah, our whole group set out by foot to Paradise Beach. The Lonely Planet guidebook says that this is one beach that completely lives up to its name and is found only 3 km south of town. It sounded like it was going to be a lovely walk.

Or not.

At first, it seemed nice enough as we left the medina late in the morning.

There was some pretty coastline.

Some cute baby sheep.

A colorful sheep herder.

But as time wore on, and the mid-day sun began to beat down on us, none of the wide, arcing turns along the coastline produced a remotely plausible beach, much less anything fit to be called Paradise Beach.

Then after about 1 1/2 hours of walking, we discovered that we had brought only one small bottle of tap water (something that Karla, Gary and Grace, at least, couldn't drink). Of course, we had just assumed that after a short, breezy walk, we'd be at Paradise Beach, where there would be food and water at a charming little restaurant (pretty standard at good beaches in Morocco).

No such luck. We did, however, find this nifty, abandoned(?) construction site.

And with no other shade available, Gary and Karla made do with the treads of a stalled bulldozer to change Grace's diaper. Desperate times....

Ultimately, after walking way more than 3 km (5 km? 6 km? 7 km?) south of town, we gave up and turned back.

In retrospect, maybe the Lonely Planet writers accidentally left off a "1" and really meant to say that the beach was 13 km south of town. Although after consulting another travel book, it turns out the beaches are north of town, and there's no mention whatsoever of any alleged "Paradise Beach." Hmm.

Since it was Bob's idea to spend the day at the elusive Paradise Beach, he took some abuse on the way home, especially from his unhappy son (who has really mastered a walk that says "I am the most-dejected boy ever").

Here are Gary and Grace being good sports (since falling asleep constitutes being a good sport when you are six months old).

In any case, our spirits lifted upon returning to town and ordering big bottles of coke and water and some pizzas.

Bob, having been denied his fresh fish on the beach, got his fresh fish in town instead.

Then we played for a while on the perfectly-fine beach right next to the medina (and about 10 minutes walk from our rental house),

ending the day with a beautiful sunset.


A bientot,

Kim

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Asilah!


Bonjour,

We (the KBATS, plus Karla, Gary and Grace) trained it to Asilah on Wednesday.

In my opinion, Asilah rivals Chefchaouen and Essaouira for the title of most charming small city in Morocco.

For one thing, it has the cleanest medina I've ever seen. The medina was the cleanest place in the city (not the usual state of affairs).

There are also lots of places to buy contemporary art, since Asilah is a haven for Moroccan (and other) artists.

And in the medina, many of the walls are covered with funky murals, presumably painted by many of those artists.

Asilah has the added advantage of being located right next to the sea, and the light is beautiful, particularly in the evening (yes, I'll be posting more photos of spectacular sunsets soon).

Here's the view from the roof terrace of the house we rented in the medina.

On Thursday morning, several of us headed to the weekly local market, which is not designed for tourists but for real residents. Our choice for transportation? A horse-drawn, wooden cart.

It seemed like a good, fun idea at the time.

Here's Anna taking the reins on our ride.

And here's Gracie checking out the view from the cart and her daddy's lap.

Turns out that taking the cart was not such a great decision, something we realized first when the horse began to gallop up a street paved with broken asphalt (we had the driver slow down so that Gary and Gracie didn't bounce right off the back), then again, when our driver turned out onto the highway and cars and trucks pulled up close before swerving around to pass us, (it's hard to get a good photo of that when you are doing all you can just to hang on), and then again, when my lower back let its presence be known when I got off the cart.

We took a regular taxi home.

But before we did, Gracie got to visit her first Thursday market in Morocco.

And while there, we had time to buy fresh olive oil, several kinds of delicious olives, about 4 lbs of tomatoes, 2 lbs of onions, and two bunches of scallions, all for about $5.

The next day, we were off to Paradise beach... well, at least we thought we were.

A bientot,